Thank you. I am working on detaching and have been reading the livestrong.com article on detachment. My w has been working on this too, but passively blames me for it and says i "emotionally abused" her. I called her a few names over the years, but I beleive my biggest failing in that way was my defensiveness and intensity...working on it.
BD OM EA 9/2013 ICAYBDNLY 10/2013 I Move out 1/2014 Separation draft sent 5/2014 S13 S13 S9