Thanks so much for this. I have been reading the threads and already feel better. My last discussion with her was on thursday. She told me she is thinking it is over and was pushing for a legal separation. I asked for more time. I am committed to NOT talking about the r with her. I do not have much hope in her changing any time soon, so I am working on me and buying as much time as I can. I can't wait until the weather improves so I can ride my motorcycle!
BD OM EA 9/2013 ICAYBDNLY 10/2013 I Move out 1/2014 Separation draft sent 5/2014 S13 S13 S9