Thanks so much for this. I have been reading the threads and already feel better.
My last discussion with her was on thursday. She told me she is thinking it is over and was pushing for a legal separation. I asked for more time.
I am committed to NOT talking about the r with her. I do not have much hope in her changing any time soon, so I am working on me and buying as much time as I can.
I can't wait until the weather improves so I can ride my motorcycle!


BD OM EA 9/2013
ICAYBDNLY 10/2013
I Move out 1/2014
Separation draft sent 5/2014
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