Far more than I ever imagined. This process has opened my eyes up to the many times and ways I let my wife down. It goes far beyond cheating. I feel it goes to the core of who I am and how I valued, or rather, didn't value, my wife.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014