Far more than I ever imagined. This process has opened my eyes up to the many times and ways I let my wife down. It goes far beyond cheating. I feel it goes to the core of who I am and how I valued, or rather, didn't value, my wife.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014