Yeah thanks LFW. I'm up-to-date on their immunisations, etc but I don't know the processes. I'm used to the situation being "X needs this, where do I go?" I'd like to work as a team but my wife appears to not be interested in anything team-oriented right now. I'm staying patient though. I feel good about myself and I know I'm trying my best. I do wish that my wife would see this and work with me. Our marriage may be on hold for now but we still have a house to run and kids to raise and things would be a lot easier if she cut me some slack. In saying that, I don't expect that to happen at all so I'm just trying to keep on top of things, ask as few questions as I need to but enough to do what I've gotta do and just get on with life.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014