As for the doctor....I know that the ex totally hated that I was not up to snuff on the whole doctor visit/scheduling/immunizations thing. This was pre-bomb and was totally on me.....I just didn't keep track of it all. Now 6 years later....I keep folders on each of the kids, their various doctor check ups, and all sorts of medical stuff. Doctors and little kids create tons of appointments that need to be met and kept up with....So while you might have had a communication breakdown, as a parent you should be up to date on the kids medical needs. This isn't a 2x4 by the way....Just father to father advice.
