Life continues to be up and down. I feel guilty going dark and doing last resort since he said I abandoned him the last 10 years. Do you think this is still ok to do? He is talking to me more, and very curious about what I am doing when I tell him I am going somewhere. He invites himself when I go somewhere with the girls. Most of the activities I do involve the girls, as they ate my life.
He says the OW is just his BFF. If he comes out with there is a relationship his work could fire him. Right now his work had been questioning him about his relationship, and his boss has gone to HR. He says either they fire her or he is going to sue for harassment. He saw a lawyer who says he has a case. This would ruin us financially.
He has really distanced himself from me physically the last month. I stopped asking for hugs as he would give me scrappy side hug and then give me a cheek for a kiss.
He is lying more and being more secretive. I feel like he is trying to gather evidence on me. He has told me he does not trust me and asked if I am gathering evidence on him, he is getting paranoid.
I am going to be getting some legal advice just in case. I am continuing to detach, but am not sure if this us the best? He had lots of people abandon him in childhood, and acused me of it too.
He continues to sleep in spare room, ay this point we are just roommates. He is getting very attached to OW. I have heard him talking to her on phone until early morning hours, this is very hard for me to ignore.
I have thought of kicking him out. But I cannot I don't want my daughters exposed to his loser friends.
