I know I hurt my XW. I called her after the break up of the affair and apologized for my actions and she forgave me. She did remarry and had children.
I know I made mistakes with my current W and we both are paying the price. I would love to reconcile with my W with us being lead by God. If it doesn't happen I wish her happiness. We both know she is looking for happiness unfortunately she has to have happiness from within not from someone else. We know a lot of people are searching for the right person to fall in love with, when you have to learn to love the person who is imperfect.
