I haven't seen my EW in years. we don't have a relationship. I know what happens to kids from divorce. I came from a divorce family. My w called it quits and yes he was drinking. She did tell me he drank a lot more than I ever did and he also was always partying etc..
My w has noticed all my changes and even called me fantastic. She did say she is scared and don't know how long they will last. I told her I understand why she would think that way.
I did get divorced and I made the worst mistake of my life when I divorced my EW. I lived with a lot a pain and that A was a bad R. I stayed for convience and I never felt I worth anything more because my EW was a great wonderful women. I got caught up in the addiction of it. I was so stupid then.
I know this is out of my control. I just know what I am doing now with God in my life and I plan on staying this way for me.
