You never answered the question about how your relationship is with your XW.
"Didn't have a good relationship with her son. I tried to bond with him and he never would warm up to me.I He doesn't like his dad's w. We did go to counseling with step son about 2 years ago and w stopped because she thought the counselor was to hard on him. My w does every thing for him. She does his hair organizes all his homework and he plays video games from morning to night non stop. so by the time we had time together she was exhausted. She also said I ruled with an iron fist. The rules were never followed. I stopped any discipline a year and a Hal ago."
It's not his fault. Sorry but that's what happens to kids when their family get broken.
"The second was I was drinking to much which caused me to take her for granted at times. She told me it is ok for me to drink but don't drink to much
I stopped all the drinking two weeks prior to her filing D."
So in other words, you've only stopped your drinking habit for a month. I wouldn't trust your changes either right now.
As for your W's first marriage, what caused the breakup of that one? Did she call it quits or her ex?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.