Didn't have a good relationship with her son. I tried to bond with him and he never would warm up to me.I He doesn't like his dad's w. We did go to counseling with step son about 2 years ago and w stopped because she thought the counselor was to hard on him. My w does every thing for him. She does his hair organizes all his homework and he plays video games from morning to night non stop. so by the time we had time together she was exhausted. She also said I ruled with an iron fist. The rules were never followed. I stopped any discipline a year and a Hal ago. The second was I was drinking to much which caused me to take her for granted at times. She told me it is ok for me to drink but don't drink to much
I stopped all the drinking two weeks prior to her filing D. I haven't drank since. I have been going to church and it's been what's been saving me..
You're right on everything above its all counter productive. I just have to keep on being the best me.
My w did tell me if she could still pick my daughter up on Fridays because I work afternoons and that's what she doeS now. She would like to keep her for a few days when we're divorced. I have to ask my daughter she is 11-
