For Scorp7...since your thread is locked.

[Scorp7]

In the meantime, keep in touch with your kids, be nice and charming to your wife, let your wife see your kids enjoy spending time with you, even without her, and do not bring up the parenting plan

I talk to my kids on the phone every night so that's been good. Being charming with my wife is a bit tough since the only real contact we have is email. Actually she accidently answered the phone tonight when I called the kids, that was the first time in nearly six months that I've heard her voice on the phone (pretty sad I was actually half excited about that). The kids and I have a great time when we're together, they know I love them with all my heart.