DFE, glad you are back but sorry that things are not working out so well for you lately. Sounded like things were moving forward, and then perhaps old habits came back again? Sounds like he is on edge, getting upset over little things and starting arguments. I wonder what is underneith all of that emotion? Do you think he is upset about something or just falling into old patterns?
Is he doing any counseling right now? Seems like that would be a good start. In order to reconcile, it would good for him to have some of his own individual counseling, to address his own personal issues that need attending to.
When H and I first started reconciling, we started by each doing our own individual therapy, then, when we were ready, we started going to MC sessions together.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.
