Hi DFE!! I haven't been posting on here for a while, but I just happened to check in and noticed that you're back! (some of us are on FB with our db names followed by "DB").
Ok I will get some venting out! So after I last posted, H said he no longer wanted to work on the marriage, and then moved out. He now has his own house. We've got 3 little ones, (I forgot you had twins also!! ;)) In late September he said he wanted to work on the marriage again, and that he was 100% committed to trying, etc. We had some fun dates, and were trying to ease him into moving back into the house. Then he started pulling away, and now we are separated, likely for good. Well, on my end, he has messed around with coming and going one too many times. I feel he is just very unhappy with life and has a lot of issues to work out on his own. So now I am just in the process dealing with him moving his stuff out of my home. It's been hard, and I have had a lot of anxiety. But, I am moving on and moving forward.
Ok, I will go check out your thread now! -CP
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.