Talking to the T would serve no purpose aside from making a point for yourself to see if you're "right". Plus despite the fact that he may have been a T to you both, he has to respect your W's privacy as much as yours.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.