I agree with, GM.

If you're going to have expectations about things, you should let him know what those are.

If this person is a counselor just because she does parenting classes doesn't mean she can't be effective in working with you and H.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss