DO NOT give her the book to read. She will find everything and every reason about why it doesn't apply to her or that it is "too late". Use that as your playbook.
Retrouvaille is a good alternative or a Joe Beam seminar. And of course, DB counseling is always the best.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.