"It amazes me how they re-write history and say it was all big mistake getting married. I did the same thing to my exw when I had the affair, told the new girl how we should of never gotten married it was for all the wrong reasons etc... "
Some would call this karma.
So since you've been on that side of it, you should know that trying to convince her of anything won't work. What do you think would have worked on you when you were in your A?
How is the relationship with your XW?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.