My friend you need a 2x4...my pleasure to help you w that When we first come here we hear...its a marathon....
Well it is....do you see that she had the first talk and you suddenly doubt? Well if you doubt... She will doubt... You can give up or you can continue the work on yourself... Once you believe your changes ( and this takes time) she will be more and more ready... Its not gonna get fixed in one talk...it will take more than what you think.... She notices changes... Thats good.z she is willing to talk... Thats good but I feel you went to the talk with expectations..... You have to relax and believe in your changes and that will come with time...not in 6 months....it took you hears to be the way you were...what if tell you that it will take you years to settle the changes? Let her follow her own path, she will only see what she wants to see...
When I saw my W the other day she just wanna to see that I was trying to screw her...was I? Nop but thats all she wanted to see...when would she be ready to talk to me? When she is able to see different things....if all she thinks is that I am screwing her thats her problem....she could see that I had to pay around $1000 because she decided to leave but she wasnt ready or didnt wanna to see that.... Was my job to tell her to see that? Nop
If your W just dont want to see what it is.... Is her the one who has to look inside of herself... Not your job to tell her what to see...if she wants to know she will ask
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
