Hey Oxford, it does sound like a Lifetime movie. Sorry.

Copy Cadet's post and read it every morning.

Nothing you can do is going to change your W's mind right now. We don't know how her new "love" feels about things and she may not either, this may be his M.O.

Detach, check out the livestrong page on emotional detachment. Let her live out her fantasy for now. The less you interact with her, the better.

Are you a controller? Many of us here are.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss