When most people make it to this board, the marriage had gotten to a very bad place. Usually in the WAS's eyes, it's over. It's hard to recover from that.

We're humans, we don't change our diet till we have a heart attack, we don't see the value of exercise until something goes wrong, we have to be really depressed to seek treatment.

It is what it is.

But for some lucky people who find their way here (or to other avenues) they will recognize the opportunity they have to create a very new and different life.

And yes, some marriages might be repaired.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss