Hi folks! Time for a short update.

I finally....finally....closed on my new house yesterday. Now...the projects begin! And it's starting to warm up...awesome!

Life is good. I am getting more involved with my church, I signed up to learn to scuba, and golf league is about to start! I started attending a class at church called DivorceCare....only had one session, but I like what I see so far. It's something I may help with in the future.

I went NC with the XW a few weeks ago....LONG overdue. I had thought things were ok being friendly with her, but she's still trying to put me back where I used to be thru lying and pretending. To me, it's entirely unnecessary, but maybe that's just who she is now. As Mach asked me a long long time ago....do I really need friends like that? Nope.

I'm considering changing my handle here....Breakdown doesn't seem to fit anymore. When I started this journey, I felt like I was on the verge of breaking down, or was actually breaking down repeatedly. Now, I feel like one of those minions on Despicable Me, laughing all the time and having fun.


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13