Starting a new thread. I went to my IC yesterday and learned I have a lot of passive aggressive tendencies. Very passive and then abruptly I will blow up. I also am learning a lot of the ways I reacted in my M was due to how I was raised and the roles I was shown to play. I am working on a new role. I also am working on being assertive. This will help me in my job and raising my children. Ironically I have always taught my riding students to be assertive. I need to practice what I preach.I need to get lots if practice in being assertive and getting my emotions under control before our first custody mediation on April 1st.
Everyone here has such great advice and I really appreciate it. It appears to me though that most of the marriages on here have still failed or is that just my flawed perception?
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014
