I'm trying the 180 approach right now. She seems to be asking more ?s but of no real matter I've just been giving short answers which require no reasking. I'm always with kids since I work night shift so I see them after school everyday which is great. Just this week my oldest had a few 1/2 days so we got to hang out more than usual which is real nice. S13 is pretty bitter about his mom he knows nothing of affair or orientation and I plan on keeping it that way. I try and show him the good about her but because of him knowing of the impending divorce he blames her and dosent want to hear it. When he does bag on her I put a stop to it right away which is hard to do because he's telling the truth. It's a tough journey right now and the help I have reviewed from this board in such a short time is greatly appreciated. Thank you
M48 W44 S13 S11 S4 Married 14 yrs Nov 14/13bomb dropped Feb she filed for D 1/14 End of Feb she served me 3/24 got notice to appear at F.O.C