Wife been having an affair with another woman.

[Dyno]

I have compleatly shut down with her I only speak or text if it concerns the kids. I do not start conversations anymore or ? Her whereabouts. If she truly has came out as a lesbian I can accept that no matter how much it hurts but the cheating to me at this time is unforgivable. I would like to believe that she is lying about being gay because I have caught her in multiple lies recently. Thank you for response this board has been a great tool for healing