I didnt went deep into his concern... Let me explain this a little further...if she is lesbian or have any other thinking/choice or whatever...its her choice at this point, it might be true or not, I am putting you in the position of accepting this as it is and focus the work on yourself....she will evenctually tell you how things are and if she is lesbian she will be able to figure it out by herself...all you can do at this point its focus on yourself and your kids... Read sandi rules and keep moving on, work on the things you dont like about yourself and again keep moving on...
I wasnt telling you to give up, I was telling you to accept that this is how she feels right now and thats all.
I dont know why she said she is lesbian, it might be true or not but the focus shouldnt be on there, instead should it be in focus on yourself at this point.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.