I agree 3 Boyz. It sounds like you have had many positive communications with your h. That is good. However, it can cause expectations. Expectations=bad. Sometimes, it seems (gasp!) almost easier when they act like an a$$. I do have to chuckle at the comment by your h about having dinners if/when he remarries. Maybe you get there one day-who knows? But it seems premature to even mention something as uncomfortable as that. Yikes!
Hang in there:)
You are right Georgia! It was a lot easier when my H was acting like an a$$. I literally had no expectations at that point. Now that he is acting like a normal human being again and has changed and made sacrifices for the kids happiness (instead of just his own happiness), it hurts that he does not do the same thing for me. Bad expectations!! I need to drop them ASAP.
