Welcome NYK - so sorry you are here. My advice (I'm pretty new at this too) is to read all the homework that Cadet listed above. Read all the different situations and post often. Take care of yourself, learn to detach. I also read a lot at the hero's spouse which you can google, they have a lot of articles and resources as well. you are not alone.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
