Welcome TLD - I too am sorry you are here. It is the place to be though for support for this. Read everything you can, every link that Cadet posted and then go search for more. Put yourself first, you have to learn to detach, eat, breathe, sleep, exercise, do what you can to take care of yourself. another good site for articles and resources is the hero's spouse, you can google it. It's nothing really new after you've read everything here but I'm one of those that likes to read and absorb everything I can. Keep posting and take care of you
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
