I think I belong here....

[Georgiabelle]

Oh this is MLC script. They must read from the same text book. It sounds like he's testing you. Here's the deal. Any changes you make, have to be for you. If he doesn't like them or wants you to stop I don't think you should. Why? Because the changes are for you.

I am in similar sich and h wanted me to "just let him go." He didn't know why and after watching how his bizarre behavior was affecting our children, he moved out. It's not that I truly wanted him to move out, but I had to think if my kids as he certainly wasn't. It sounds like you h is good with the kids.

I know it's difficult (trust me!!!!)and you are crumbling inside. However, keep focusing in you and your kids. You cannot change him or fix this for him. Act like you are happy with your life and let this run it's course. Become the best you - not for him but for you. It's important to show our that sometimes life throws is a curve ball. I know it $&cks but let him figure out his caca. Leave him alone.

We are here for you.