Thanks for the replies. I went to the bookstore and they were out of 5LL. I got "Chicken Soup For The Romantic Soul"- anyone familiar with it? I also got a red velvet journal book with a heart on the front. I figure I'll start it out with a love letter to her in the front, and then we can both use it to write things we love about each other in, sort of trading it back and forth whenever we feel the urge. I'm still planning to get 5LL and put them all in a gift bag (good idea, lostlove).
Although I think she would really benefit from reading SSM, I doubt she ever will for the reasons many have stated. First, the title implies that there is a serious problem and that it's her fault. Kind of like if she gave me a book called "The Annoying Horny Husband". And also because she probably doesn't see it as a serious enough problem to warrant reading a book. She's glad I got something out of the book, but has no desire to read it herself. We had a nice talk a couple of weeks ago and have had sex a few times since. Problem solved, right?
