Thanks, GB!

I'm not okay with him taking the dog, mainly because it's disrespect. I absolutely care for the dog- he ran away and left everything here. I do feel like he's hiding, and of course like most WAS pop back up when they feel they can handle a tiny piece of real life. Taking her for the weekend is not the issue, taking her for the weekend so he can hang out with OW and her dog all weekend is where the disrespect comes in.

It's not worth a fight- if he pushed the issue I would let him do it. But, since he's asking...

Yeah- his friends have openly campaigned for him to leave me. The difference here is his friends are older, actually (OW is the same age, but the others are in their late 50s).

Smh :-/


Me: 39
H: 45
Second marriage for both
H left 12/2013
M:4 T:5.5