Unicorns, Big Foot, and the WAS...

[artsy]

For the vets: my answer is "No, it's not okay". Do I ignore the text and hope he just drops it, do I take this opportunity to set a boundary?

Here's the problem for him: he's going to realize here soon that he cannot hold on to both me and this other life with OW. These are the only people he hangs out with, and they all come in this big, codependent bunch. It's all or nothing with them. Lol. So basically it will be him choosing me or his social life as he's known it for over 2.5 years.

I know that will have to happen eventually. I'm not at a place where I can hear that answer without having a major emotional reaction right now. I still have detaching to do.

How should I handle this????