Unicorns, Big Foot, and the WAS...

[artsy]

{giant, long sigh}

I feel there has been a major step backwards.

H texted me yesterday asking if he can take the dog to the lake this weekend. What this means: he's going out of town with his friends- one of which is the OW (and her husband, BTW, but I guess if they're all okay hanging out together, then that's their issue).

While the fact he is still continuing to party with these people who openly disrespect me and don't value M is disappointing,I'm mainly disappointed he doesn't see how mentioning it to me and asking about the dog would be of concern. He could have easily just asked to take her for the weekend... No added info needed.

I made the mistake of hoping he was distancing himself from them because he hadn't mentioned them in 3 months. I own that expectation.

I did not respond to the text, because I did not want to REACT, I want to RESPOND. He may not bring it up again, but if he does what should I do?