I gave my LD W the SSM book over 2 weeks ago and she has not cracked it. In that time we have, however, made good strides at working on our relationship & love life. My question is whether to give her the Five Love Languages (which I have not read) as part of a Valentine's Day gift. In a way it may be pushy to give her a second book, but I think the title of SSM is scaring her off and 5LL might seem a little more her speed.
My plan for VD is to give her some new clothes, including an outfit to wear that night, take the kids in the afternoon to go swimming at the 4 star hotel I booked for the night, go out for a romantic dinner and spend a relaxing night away from the house. Ideally I would say we would ML all night, but I'll settle for my 15 minutes of fame.
Should I give her 5LL? Another book? Wait and give it to her another time? Thanks.
