Okay...I'll bite. BTW, the ONLY thing I think is "right" about what co-parenting looks like in the future is that the kids are of the utmost importance.
What does ^^ that look like to you? Flesh out the specifics here. Sometimes if you really contemplate about your own 'thoughts' as how the "future" would turn out, those will be valuable clues for you to bring to the family counseling sessions. Break down in specific action steps on how you can facilitate it and contribute toward that effort.
And don't forget to put in some requests to H with specific detail on what you'd like to see from him. He cannot read your mind either.
That way you won't end up disappointed "thinking" that H shoulda/woulda done this and that....make sense?
