I'M BACKKKKKKKKKKK

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MrBond
I've gone through many counselors. Unfortunately all of them seemed to do more harm or didn't help. I've even tried individual counseling. I've looked at a marriage boot camp but don't know if that will be effective. We have trouble communicating. It seems I say one thing and he hears another. He has a lot of anger towards me. He feels I have controlled his life but I don't see it that way.

He's even angry at me because he decided to move out and rented a small apt smaller than our family room. He said he is bitter towards me for that although I never asked him to leave. Seems I can do no right.

I think we are both making an effort. It's just when we have a disagreement the past comes up and we go back to our old method of fighting. Just yelling and screaming. He is back on the couch and has shut down again. I've tried and tried to get him to open up. He thinks we should have zero fights. I think fights are ok as long as you learn how to resolve them. He doesn't want to talk about things.