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[tbm4evr]

Thanks Sandi. I do get it. But on the statement you responded to. W specifically told me that she can get kids stuff together in the car and that she feels smothered with me around doing it. She doesn't want me there in the morning saying good bye to the kids when they are in the car and then shutting their car doors ..she asked me to say my good byes before she "takes over" getting them in the car and off to school. I was wrong to respond that way and recognize that i should have just said that mom wants to do it from now on.

I agree that she will never have enough space as long as she is in affair. W completely denies she is but now i have her password to her private email ...I'm tempted to look but don't know what good it would do to "prove it to her" ..just push her further away is what i gather from here.