Had a good session with therapist. She agreed with the "that is interesting approach" and pointed out that although he is acting more civil nothing has really changed. He has not sought help for drinking (that I know of and he is still drinking) and he still stays out all night with whoever and still does "whatever he wants"

She suggested I start a R talk and ask him if anything has changed. She thinks hearing hin5 say that he still has no interest in the marriage will maje it easier for me to continue detaching. I am not sure that is really a good idea.

Any thoughts?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15