Thanks Barry. I did not think about needing to be decisive. I was worried that welcoming her to join me for dinner would be pursuing, but if we had soft plans to meet up I guess it would not be pursuing.
I know we aren't at a stage right now to invite her to dinner out of the blue. I would like us to work into having dinner a night or two each week, but I will have to wait for her to make that decision.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15