Thanks Barry. I did not think about needing to be decisive. I was worried that welcoming her to join me for dinner would be pursuing, but if we had soft plans to meet up I guess it would not be pursuing.

I know we aren't at a stage right now to invite her to dinner out of the blue. I would like us to work into having dinner a night or two each week, but I will have to wait for her to make that decision.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15