I don't think I deserved it but I do think I understand it.
Our kids are everything to my W, just as they are to me. Once she decided she couldn't be happy with me any longer she got her plan together as far as what she felt she needed to do to try to be sure she wouldn't lose the kids.
I don't agree with what she did but for her I know she would do anything to make sure she would always have the kids with her, even if it meant doing something awful to me.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS