I do need to totally let go. Friends, family and my therapist are all against me wanting to reconcile. All I want is whats best for the kids and firmly believe that would be in a 2 parent household. That is beyond my control.
If my therapist tells me to go against my choice, I will CHOOSE another one...if my family told me to forget about reconciliation I will stop talking to them about it... Simple as that... You dont have to convince other of your choices only yourself... When you try to convince others of your choices you are in reality doubting of your choices.... Nobody can choose for you...just you
My therapist supports me in every action I take thats why I keep working with her, she doesnt judge me...she listens to me and ask me questions....
My sister believes my W its inmature and she deserves the unhapiness she is experiencing now and she advices me to fill For D as soon as possible...thats not my choice so I stopped talking to my sister about my Sitch....
I believe in my choice and as once MrBond told me:: you dont find hope...you made it yourself....moving on and remarry will be easier but is it my choice? Nop so I have to believe in my choice and works towards it not against it...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
