I don't know, I'm like four or five of the others here. Long time posters like myself. Something just doesn't add up TO ME.
A lot of your answers are framed:
Well, in Canada... Well, usually... Apparently...
Generalities and assumptions, IMO.
I guess my point is that this is your life and your situation.
Me? If my ex kidnapped my kids, moved them four hours away, has me arrested on false charges, and dictated when and where I got to see MY kids, I wouldn't give two rat's arses what USUALLY happens, chit would get real, really fast.
I'd fight like h*ll to clear my name unequivocally and see my kids.
But that's just me.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.