I acknowledged but didn't respond to the loan statement. My wife is currently treating everything in her life as hers and I'm respecting that. Some questions she asked tonight lead me to believe that she's considering trying to purchase a new car on her own but that would be mindreading. I'm trying to put money away for a new car in the event that we reconcile because I know she wants it and I'm a diligent saver. Unfortunately, I'm not saving the amount my wife and I had budgeted and I'm in the process of trying to determine where our money is being spent so we can work towards eliminating waste and equalising spending so we both have some spare cash.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014