Bea, I am so very sorry. I'm not as far along on my journey, but I have experienced very similar, soul destroying behavior. Even after all I've read I will never understand why the MLCer/WAS chooses to be so hateful to those of us that loved them for such a long time. I was distraught, then angry and now just very, very sad about all of the destruction. I hope this latest round ends soon for you. From your posts it clear that you have worked very hard to regain your footing and make a new life for yourself. I am so sorry that your xh keeps interfering.