Hey Scorp, what is your wife's town really like. Take off the Scorp-goggles for a moment and think about the good and bad things. Is it a place you could be happy in? Is it a place your kids could be happy in?
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014