For Scorp7...since your thread is locked.

[Scorp7]

The first L I spoke to said that we could "shoot for the moon and ask for shared custody and time". He also hinted that I get used to being discriminated against in the process.

The second L said we could go for shared custody and time but that courts are still weighted in favor of the mother.

The L I hired said something similar but that she thought I would likely end up with more than just every other weekend for sure and would have a chance at shared time.

I have spoken to countless parents that are D that have spoken of their experiences as well. I have not spoken to ONE father that has full custody and that includes a father who's ExW was a drunk and abusive to her kids.