Wonka, I have discussed custody and time with my L as well as a couple of other L's. Not one even hinted at my getting full custody or time with my kids as being remotely possible.
If you have time look up Bill C-560, equal parenting, it is set to be presented to the federal government next week. It has been around for about 15 years and has not been passed but it may be getting closer to being passed. Basically it would change family law in Canada such that both parents would be automatically assumed to have 50/50 custody and time with the kids upon dissolution of a marriage.
This bill hasn't passed yet. If it does that would be great. If you do some reading on the bill you will also turn up a lot on just how biased the courts are against men obtaining equal rights with their kids, let alone having a hope of full custody. Does it happen that a father gets full custody, sure, but it's a very rare exception where the mother was totally unfit or a danger to her kids.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS