So the last few days have been fine. We have taken much more space, and there have been no conflicts so to speak. I'm not really looking for anything yet, and just trying to follow LRT.
My tough love has been going OK. I have been consistent which is probably best. Also very focused on kids and me. The kids and myself are going on a holiday next week. I can't wait. The problem is my wife's BD is on the Saturday we leave. Pretty sure everyone's advice would be no card, no gift, nothing, but just wanted some advice? If we speak I will say Happy Birthday, but if I am GAL and moving on, I don't need to be providing BD Cards and gifts. Pretty sure that will just aggravate her.
Interestingly, the OM has been away this week, and I have been tempted to try and pursue when I "have my chance" so to speak. I have managed to avoid this. I have also been very tempted to expose their affair in the online and professional world in which they interact. It's very tempting, but again I know it will do no good. So frustrating to watch this happen and feel helpless beyond what I can do for myself
