Bro fighting against the D it doesnt mean not giving her the D, it means working on yourself...and collaborating with her if this is what she wants....time will tell her if this is what she really wants...not you, you can not tell her: you are doing a mistake let US fix it...because she doesnt see this a istake, she sees this as a choice and thats all, it hurts? Yes it does but now its when you "support" her by not getting on her way...
I love you honey but I need to have another man....its fine I am just gonna move on with my life, recover and move on if that doesnt fit my concept of a Relationship.... Now who is the one who has to change to be with you? Can you see it?
Its simple, hard to do it but simple... She has to find respect for you and respect its something you earn with actions towards improving yourself.... Hey love I have changed and now I am giving you all my love unconditionally because I wasnt ready before----no respect
You taking care of yourself and accepting her decission without going against her....what reasons she has to continue affair or keep being upset? Less than you telling her to stop...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
