Barry, I don't really care where I live although where I am now is a far better place for my kids to be than where they are with my W. By far the most important thing is that my kids have their Dad with them for at least half their time.
Like Ye touched on, I do suffer from a very poor self esteem, big time insecure etc. I'm getting better at not letting it effect me so much but it's going to take time.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS